[Rhodes22-list] Information gathering

elle watermusic38 at yahoo.com
Wed Jul 23 09:36:19 EDT 2008


Hank,

Do you have any idea how many fights I broke up when I was at the high school?? (guys only...I wouldn't go near a girls' fight!)

I've taught 4th -12 grades....this feels just like being back in school...hahaha

;^)


elle



We can't change the angle of the wind....but we can adjust our sails.

 1992 Rhodes 22   Recyc '06  "WaterMusic"   (Lady in Red)


--- On Wed, 7/23/08, Hank <hnw555 at gmail.com> wrote:

> From: Hank <hnw555 at gmail.com>
> Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Information gathering
> To: "The Rhodes 22 Email List" <rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org>
> Date: Wednesday, July 23, 2008, 9:21 AM
> Wow!  I wish I'd had someone like you as a teacher when
> I was in school.
> Very well put!
> 
> Hank
> 
> 
> On 7/23/08, elle <watermusic38 at yahoo.com> wrote:
> >
> > Rummy,
> >
> > Communities change and grow in directions influenced
> by their deinzens.
> >
> > The tone of 'da list' has become quite more
> abrasive and bullying than it
> > was before I joined...& i lurked for quite a long
> time before my first
> > posting.
> >
> > Yahoo has an integrated address book w/in its mail
> program...I occasionally
> > go thru it & delete duplicate addresses...I did
> this address the other
> > day....and was really surprised at the number of names
> that were frequent
> > posters back when I was lurking but haven't been
> heard of for quite a while.
> >
> > If this list doesn't grow, it will collapse under
> the weight of the bully
> > rhetoric. It is my opinion that the tone has changed
> BECAUSE there is very
> > little new input...the newbies don't  stick around
> for civility to take
> > over. They have no idea that it is any different than
> the snapshot they see.
> >
> > There will be no fresh ideas w/o fresh faces.....and
> once you guys finish
> > beating up on each other...what will be left?  Wait
> for another election to
> > start over again? That'll get old for you guys,
> too.
> >
> > The list does sit dormant now for a day or so...often
> after an acrimonious
> > beating......
> >
> > The founding fellas of 'da list' are 'way
> past the need for sailing advice
> > other than the "Hey, wouldja lookit this"
> type posting.....it's the newbies
> > that keep you rethinking technique and methods w/their
> questions....
> >
> > So either 'da list' will become  a closed
> community of a few who beat up on
> > each other for sport, or it will be an
> 'interesting' place to hang around
> > for info on sailing & whatever floats by.
> >
> > Whatever....
> >
> > elle
> >
> >
> > We can't change the angle of the wind....but we
> can adjust our sails.
> >
> > 1992 Rhodes 22   Recyc '06  "WaterMusic"
>   (Lady in Red)
> >
> >
> > --- On Wed, 7/23/08, R22RumRunner at aol.com
> <R22RumRunner at aol.com> wrote:
> >
> > > From: R22RumRunner at aol.com
> <R22RumRunner at aol.com>
> > > Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Information
> gathering
> > > To: rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org
> > > Date: Wednesday, July 23, 2008, 7:59 AM
> > > Arthur,
> > > As has been stated previously, this list was
> started
> > > because we wanted to  be
> > > able to post pictures and not have to worry about
> a sailnet
> > > moderator
> > > stepping in to control our conversations. With
> all due
> > > respect, you are very new  to
> > > all of us and I don't believe that you are in
> a
> > > position to decide where the
> > > list should go or how it should be run. This is a
> > > community. We have a
> > > charter  and when someone steps over the bounds
> of the
> > > charter, we police ourselves.
> > > Yes,  I am concerned that a poll from 268 non
> participating
> > > people would lead
> > > us in a  direction the original founders and
> participating
> > > members of this
> > > list don't  want it to go in. We have lost a
> few people
> > > over the years, but the
> > > list is  still strong with a large knowledge base
> and we
> > > will continue this
> > > way for many  years. Read the charter. Understand
> it and if
> > > you think someone
> > > has stepped over  the line, call them on it, but
> leave this
> > > site the way it is.
> > >
> > > Rummy said that.
> > >
> > >
> > > In a message dated 7/22/2008 9:54:41 P.M. Eastern
> Daylight
> > > Time,
> > > czerwonky at earthlink.net writes:
> > >
> > > John,
> > >
> > > I have no objection to having a poll.  Rummy, are
> you
> > > worried what results
> > > will show?  Stan has sent potential skippers to
> the  list
> > > as a promotional
> > > witness, I have some doubts about whether it
> helps his
> > > efforts.  I think the
> > > prime objective for those subscribing to the list
>  is
> > > building their sailing
> > > knowledge and cohesion in the fleet.  The often 
> exagerated
> > > and pointless emotion
> > > and language may provide a momentary email 
> thrill, but
> > > face it folks, there
> > > are better ways to get the points  across.
> > >
> > > A poll could have distorted for sure, but not
> only  because
> > > of the votes of
> > > new skippers who are sick of political posturing,
> but  due
> > > to the loss over
> > > time of excellent former members who were sick of
> the
> > > bickering and were labeled
> > > as internet police and the like, just for 
> expressing their
> > > feelings
> > > honestly.  Numerous newbies and veterans have 
> been treated
> > > in this way.
> > >
> > > It has been suggested that the Rhodes 22  sailing
> advocates
> > > post their
> > > messages on Sailnet or some other forum instead 
> of this
> > > one.  I suggest that
> > > Rhodes22.org is by definition a Rhodes22  sailing
> site, and
> > > that if someone really
> > > wants to post political swill, they  should have
> no right
> > > to soil the Rhodes22
> > > skipper list or the Rhodes 22  name.  Maybe a
> more
> > > appropriate site should be
> > > their destination when  they lose control.
> > >
> > > Nothing wrong with meaningful political 
> insights, but in
> > > the tone and manner
> > > I have seen, it is just way  overdone.
> > >
> > > I refer back to sometimes comments about an
> unnamed member
> > > of  our fleet -
> > > those who cannot get their point across in a
> civil way are
> > > demonstrating their
> > > 'mounting problems' to everyone now or
> later who
> > > reads  about our Rhodes 22
> > > boat and fleet.  Some legacy we help provide to 
> Stan.  As
> > > he has gotten into
> > > some of the dialogue, I have not seen a need  by
> him to be
> > > foul in doing so.
> > > Maybe we could follow his  example...
> > >
> > > Art
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > >From:  R22RumRunner at aol.com
> > > >Sent: Jul 22, 2008 7:04 PM
> > > >To:  rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org
> > > >Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Information 
> gathering
> > > >
> > > >John,
> > > >Taking a poll is a lousy idea. You are 
> giving people
> > > that have never and
> > > >probably will never add  anything to the list
> decide
> > > what direction we go
> > > in. I
> > > >think if  anyone wanted to, they could
> certainly
> > > express their opinions
> > > freely
> > > >on  da list. I think the majority of the
> people like it
> > > just  fine. Everyone
> > > >knows  how to use the delete button. There
> are  times
> > > when I don't have the
> > > time
> > > >to read  all posts, but will  sift through
> the ones
> > > that are sailing related.
> > > >
> > > >Rummy
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >In a message dated 7/22/2008 4:58:17 P.M.
> Eastern
> > > Daylight  Time,
> > > >jlock at relevantarts.com writes:
> > > >
> > > >At  04:25  PM 7/22/2008 -0400, Michael D.
> Weisner
> > > wrote:
> > > >>I wonder  if we can try to  solve the
> problem a bit
> > > differently than
> > > chasing
> > > >>otherwise good folks  off the list. 
> Maybe John
> > > can set up a third
> > > >>distribution mode in  addition to
> > > "Non-digested" and
> "Digested",
> > > something
> > > >>called "Sailing   limited"
> which would
> > > only receive items of sailing
> > > interest.
> > > >>Maybe  we  could use a prefixed subject
> line
> > > modifier such as "Sailing:"  to
> > > >>direct  these posts to the limited list
> as well as
> > > the  general list.
> > > >>Forgetting  to add the subject line
> modifier  will
> > > only affect those who do
> > > >>not wish  to be on "da list", 
> not the
> > > rest of us.  John, is such a   thing
> > > >>doable?
> > > >
> > > >Doable, but probably not  practical.  Besides
>  the
> > > programing involved,
> > > >it depends on  the poster remembering to
> place the
> > > magic word in the
> > > >subject  line.  We all know how well THAT 
> works!
> > > >
> > > >Seriously...  before we can discuss making
> any changes,
> > > we need  more
> > > >information.  Right now we have no sense of
> what the
> > > majority
> > > >wants.  We've heard from the usual
> suspects on
> > > what they want, but
> > > >there are 268 list members; most of whom 
> have not
> > > stated a  preference.
> > > >
> > > >We might assume that  everything is
> hunky-dory, since
> > > we  don't have
> > > >268  complaints.  But that may be because no
> good
> > > alternatives have
> > > >been proposed.
> > > >
> > > >I'd like to suggest a simple   poll.  I
> can whip
> > > one up in a few
> > > >minutes and post the URL to  the  list. 
> We'll run
> > > it for a couple
> > > >weeks and see what  kind of stats  come out. 
> Might be
> > > interesting to
> > > >have some  facts to kick around...  yes?
> > > >
> > > >Cheers!
> > > >
> > > >John  Lock
> > > >~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> > > >s/v Pandion -  '79 Rhodes  22
> > > >Lake Sinclair,   GA
> > > >~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> > > >
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