[Rhodes22-list] Fw: Re: Calling out Herb: WAS Gas in TN-Brad

Herb Parsons hparsons at parsonsys.com
Thu Sep 25 02:33:15 EDT 2008


Sorry Mike, I don't drink, the rest pretty much still happens on a 
regular basis. But, believe it or not, I'm seldom "pissed off". There've 
been some bad things in my life that have pissed me off. Reading an 
email isn't really one of them.

I'm really not sure who you're talking about on the "joke" part though? 
Benjamin's statement? About not wanting to ride on a plane with Ed or I? 
I didn't see it as me (or Ed) being the butt of a joke. What was the 
joke part? It was just another opportunity for him to take a dig at 
someone he doesn't like, and that can only be because he doesn't care 
for my beliefs. He might make the argument that Ed offended him with the 
"traveller" label, but I've offered no such label.

And nah, I don't think there's much on this list subject to change, but 
you know, if/when I see something that might be subject to change, I 
won't try to do it by personal attacks; however, once someone forces the 
door open, I'll play along.

No matter the interpretation though, I'm not "pissed". There's really 
very little in today's world that truly pisses me off. Once a person's 
gone through some real issues, it tends to put silliness like "humping 
dogs", and the other dogs that call 'em on it (female dogs included), in 
their proper perspective.

Sorry if you took it as me being "pissed". If it would help, I'll try to 
put an occasional smiley face.

You think I'm being facetious, but my wife will tell you, she frequently 
asks me "why are you smiling" as I'm reading the stuff on here.


michael meltzer wrote:
> And you know what, take a breath, IMHO option you over reacting, you were
> the "butt" of a joke, not great but not bad, the resion it not bad was, and
> lets be honest, you really are getting too caught up, have a drink, screw
> your wife, take a walk, go sailing, anything but typing while you are
> "pissed off". Simple question are you having fun with these post or do you
> think you have to "change" something in the world"? if it is the later...
> well it really  works and will leave you frustrated.
>
> -mjm  
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: rhodes22-list-bounces at rhodes22.org
> [mailto:rhodes22-list-bounces at rhodes22.org] On Behalf Of Herb Parsons
> Sent: Thursday, September 25, 2008 12:12 AM
> To: The Rhodes 22 Email List
> Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Fw: Re: Calling out Herb: WAS Gas in TN-Brad
>
> Sorry you don't like it Elle, but the facts are the facts. I have 
> launched 0 personal attacks against Benjamin, yet he repeatedly calls me 
> by name.
>
> You don't like me responding, that's fine, I can respect that.
>
> However, you do NOT have the right to tell me "enough".
>
> There was no attack on Ben because of his "philosophy", it was a direct 
> response on his attack against me. If you can go dig up a response that 
> was from me based on someone else's philosophy, show it to me, and 
> you'll get my apology.
>
> If not, I'll file your little rant along with the ones from Benjamin. In 
> the "Folks who say "I'll do what I want, and you do what I want" "file.
>
>
> elle wrote:
>   
>>> Herb,
>>>
>>> This pot has been simmering peaceably the past few months
>>> but i   see that you cannot live in peace.
>>>
>>> Enough from you.
>>>
>>> The discussions are enlightening. Your rants and
>>> namecalling are not.
>>>
>>> I am beginning to sincerely suspect your capacity for
>>> intelligent discourse in light of your aggressive and
>>> uncalled-for attacks on anyone who does not share your
>>> philosophies.
>>>
>>> Enough. 
>>>
>>> Robert had a name for this behavior in the past: ritual
>>> mounting.
>>>
>>> You are not top dog. No one here is.
>>>
>>> Get used to it.
>>>
>>> Behave.
>>>
>>> I am interested in the debates; NOT in your petulant rants
>>> when you have nothing else to say.
>>>
>>> Jeez...you are worse than Ed ever was. 
>>>
>>> elle
>>>
>>> We can't change the angle of the wind....but we can
>>> adjust our sails.
>>>
>>> 1992 Rhodes 22   Recyc '06  "WaterMusic"  
>>> (Lady in Red)
>>>
>>>
>>> --- On Wed, 9/24/08, Herb Parsons
>>> <hparsons at parsonsys.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> From: Herb Parsons <hparsons at parsonsys.com>
>>>> Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Gas in TN-Brad
>>>> To: "The Rhodes 22 Email List"
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> <rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org>
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> Date: Wednesday, September 24, 2008, 10:39 PM
>>>> Benjamin,
>>>>
>>>> You know, when you find me pulling some idiot bullshit
>>>> about you out of 
>>>> thin air, like you continue to do with me, I'll
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> agree
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> completely with 
>>>> you that it's all fun and games. However, you take
>>>> umbrage when others 
>>>> "play" with you, and yet you feel completely
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> free
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> to pull my name out of 
>>>> thin air when you choose to "play" yourself.
>>>>
>>>> So, all in the name of the same "fun", go
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> play
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> with yourself.
>>>>
>>>> To date, I have not made a personal attack about you
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> unless
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> it was in 
>>>> response to one of yours directed at me. I disagree
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> with
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> most of your 
>>>> politics, but I don't have a problem with that
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> from, or
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> anyone else for 
>>>> that matter. I work, and even live, with folks that
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> have
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> vastly 
>>>> different philosophies and politics than I.
>>>>
>>>> However, your hypocrisy is probably the one thing that
>>>> would make me NOT 
>>>> want to share a small confined space with you.
>>>>
>>>> I suspect the gas would be a welcome relief from the
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> other
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> olfactory 
>>>> attacks.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Benjamin Cittadino wrote:
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> Herb;
>>>>>
>>>>> I'm going to give this one good try.  If it
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>>> doesn't work I will at least
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> know that I did my best to avoid the outcome. 
>>>>>
>>>>> I suggested that Brad might want you and Ed along
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> on
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> our trip to our
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> "debate", not because I have any desire
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> to
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> be in your company, but merely as
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> a good-natured jab at Brad suggesting  he might
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> need
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> the company of his
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> philosophical "campadres"for moral
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> support. 
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> Believe me, I know full well
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> how you feel about me.  I know your feelings are
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>>> genuine and that there is
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> no point in trying to show you how wrong you are
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> about
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> me. I can live with
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> it.
>>>>>
>>>>> As for Ed, I appreciate his acknowledgement of my
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>>> feeling that he had gone
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> too far in calling me names and his willingness
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> to
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> find a different name so
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> that we may continue our debates. 
>>>>>
>>>>> Perhaps you and I should avoid addressing each
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> other
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> in the future.
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> Ben C. 
>>>>>
>>>>>  
>>>>>
>>>>>  
>>>>>
>>>>> Above all, as I have repeatedly noted, this list
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>> is
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> supposed to be fun and
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>> entertaining.  
>>>>>
>>>>> hparsons wrote:
>>>>>   
>>>>>         
>>>>>           
>>>>>> Ben,
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Why in the world would you think I'd want
>>>>>>           
>>>>>>             
>>> to
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> ride on a plane with you 
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>> for any length of time. If I want to spend
>>>>>>           
>>>>>>             
>>> time
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> with self-important 
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>> folks who seem to think the best way to
>>>>>>           
>>>>>>             
>>> improve
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> their own image is to 
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>> deprecate others, I could head over to that
>>>>>>           
>>>>>>             
>>> local
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> school district I was 
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>> talking about.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Benjamin Cittadino wrote:
>>>>>>     
>>>>>>           
>>>>>>             
>>>>>>> Brad;
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Would I get a ride in the big silver
>>>>>>>             
>>>>>>>               
>>> bird? (or
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> is it white, blue and
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>> orange) 
>>>>>>> Frankly, we'd probably have a great
>>>>>>>             
>>>>>>>               
>>> time. 
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> One problem..... nobody cares
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>> what we think.  One other problem, would
>>>>>>>             
>>>>>>>               
>>> we
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> have to bring Ed and Herb? 
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>> Sorry about the GAS joke. It was too
>>>>>>>             
>>>>>>>               
>>> tempting.
>>>     
>>>       
>>>>>>> Best,
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Ben C.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Brad Haslett-2 wrote:
>>>>>>>   
>>>>>>>       
>>>>>>>             
>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>> Ben,
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Very cute, counselor!
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Since McCain tapped into my psychic
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>> mind
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> stream and is suspending his
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>> campaign to offer adult supervision
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>> to the
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> Senate, and the Wizard of
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>> Uhs will follow suit to avoid looking
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>> like
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> an idiot (as soon as he
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>> finishes spinning the story it was
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>> his
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> idea first), why don't you and
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>> I offer to take their place?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I'll spot you ten debating points
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>> on
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> the front-end.
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>> Brad
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On Wed, Sep 24, 2008 at 4:13 PM, Ben
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>>> Cittadino <bcittadino at dcs-law.com>
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>     
>>>>>>>>         
>>>>>>>>               
>>>>>>>>                 
>>>>>>>>> Let me get this straight. 
>>>>>>>>>                 
>>>>>>>>>                   
>>> You're
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> asking BRAD if there is a GAS
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>>> shortage
>>>>>>>>> where he is?  You're asking
>>>>>>>>>                 
>>>>>>>>>                   
>>> BRAD
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> about whether there is a
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>> GAS............NO............I'm
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> not going to do this.  I can't do it.
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>>> It's
>>>>>>>>> too easy.  Forget it.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Best wishes to all,
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Ben C.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Lady in Red wrote:
>>>>>>>>>       
>>>>>>>>>           
>>>>>>>>>                 
>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>> Brad,
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> Any gas shortages in Memphis?
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> My daughter in Nashville sent
>>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>>                     
>>> me
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> the video link below; Nashville
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>>>> presently
>>>>>>>>>> has a severe shortage.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>>                     
>>> http://blogs.nashvillescene.com/pitw/2008/09/inside_the_metro_bunker.php
>>>     
>>>       
>>>>>>>>>> I'd seen a similar video
>>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>>                     
>>> on
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> another topic a while back....may well
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>>>> have
>>>>>>>>>> been on this list.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> elle
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> We can't change the angle
>>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>>                     
>>> of
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> the wind....but we can adjust our sails.
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>>>> 1992 Rhodes 22   Recyc
>>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>>                     
>>> '06 
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> "WaterMusic"   (Lady in Red)
>>>>       
>>>>         
>>>>>>>>>>                   
>>>>>>>>>>                     
>>>>


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